Our expert says:
Why ? Why did he reveal to you at last what a louse he was ( having an affair with a married woman is not a characteristic of a good man, let alone a good married man ) ? Why did he push all the blame onto you for something the pair of you did together ? To try to avoid taking responsibility for his choices and actions. ASKING him isn't going to do the remotest bit of good --- do you really think he's aware of his grubby motivations, and if he was, that he would tell you ? Assuming you didn't drug him secretly, tie him to a bed and have your wicked way with him against his will, it should be obvious to the smallest intelligence that he is fully as responsible as you are.
So why are you wasting time thinking of contacting him again for what is guaranteed to be a fruitless conversation ? He was using you, not loving you. Rather concntrate your efforts and time on marriage counselling with your poor husband, to try to heal the marriage you already have. You are still facing in the wrong direction
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