Our expert says:
J, obviously no-one can make a diagnosis of your bf's problems by remote control. he would need to see a proper shrink for a person-to-person assessment and advice, which would need him to have recognized first, that he might have a problem worth solving.
Whatever his childhood, it doesn't sufficiently explain or excuse abusing anyone else. He really needs to see a shrink for assessment and treament. From the sound of it, this could well be alcohol related, as alcohol is disinhibiting ( removes our inhibitions ) and can promote violence, verbal or otherwise, and some of us are much more sensitive to such effects from alcohol.
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