Our expert says:
You are right, it is healthy to ejaculate, but you don't need to worry about such a short time as the time that your partner has been away. Masturbate when you feel the desire/wish to, but you don't have to meet a strict quota. I suspect that when your partner is with you, part of what drives your libido is her (attraction, the interplay, as was the case with the dream you had), so the fact that you are not feeling desire when she is not there is not necessarily problematic.
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