Our expert says:
Never asume that the kids are not listening, watching, and wondering what's going on - never undertake a separation, or any such manoeuvre without discussing it in advance with the children ( among many other good reasons, there's a real risk they may blame themselves for w3hat's happening ).
Maybe h has been giving others a false version of what happened - but maybe it's a true and accurate version of how it has seemed to him, to an extent worth thinking about.
This may be an excessive giving up on a marriage if after a single incidence of violence, you fail to use mediation and marriage counselling, to see what can be understood and worked out.
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