Our expert says:
You sound like a really nice guy who is allowing himself to be haunted by a past relationship, and who has, so far, not managed to move on with life or to find more happy and fulfilling relationships. It would help if you could see a good local shrink or counsellor, especially a realistic one using CBT methods, to wiork on healing from past hurts, and becoming mbetter able to move on towards the sort of happy life you want and deserve --- and to recognize that doin so won't harm your kids at all.
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