Our expert says:
It can be awful not to get what you want, and then it can feel awful when you get what you want --- or what you wanted. Sounds like you really need to see a counsellor, urgently, to work through your different emotions in response to this unexpected discovery. And people who feel stressed by a situation that's new and hard to cope with, tend to squabbnle among themselves. Take a litle time now to work with the counsellor and come to terms with now having what you had wanted and worked for, for so long, and it's likely that you could soon end up enjoying and appreciating the experience you had wanted so much
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