Our expert says:
Staying with an abusive drug addict, is NOT to the benefit of yourself or the children. And none of his behaviour was "the drugs" --- ALL of it was HIM plus the drugs he chose to take. Stop enabling him to avoid taking responsibility for his own bad decisions and bad behaviour. Don't expect him to turn around AND stay turned around --- it really isn't likely, and will NOT happen unless he sincerely gets seriously involved in rehab and continuing counselling with proper expert help. And why is his mother allowed to interfere with you at all ? Look after yourself and your kids, and leave him to see whether he can ever find the guts to pull himself together with expert help. Face the fact --- you may feel scared to be alone --- but you ARE alone with a man who is a drug addict. You HAVE lost him to the drugs. And from here on, only HE can do what's needed to clean up his act and stay clean. Leave the re3sponsibility where it belongs, with him.
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