Our expert says:
Its hard to answer this, as so much depends on far more details than you could give or that I could read, in this format. Best to see a good local counsellor to explore all these issues. Sometimes it helps to write such a letter to clarify some of your own thoughts, without ever actually giving it to the person, indeed burning it after writing. As her reactions are hard to predict and may very well be unhelpful, I don't see what benefits you expect from giving her such a letter.
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