Posted by: Sarah | 2009/02/19

Positions for BIG penis

Hi there,

My boyfriend has a very large penis which has been causing me a bit of discomfort (not during sex, but the next day I feel sore and sensitive).
What are the best positions to prevent him hurting me too much?

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The Women on top position makes it possible for you to control the depth and force with which you are being penetrated. Furthermore spooning – where you lie on your sides and the man behind you and where he then penetrates you could also be more comfortable. I would also suggest that you add extra lubrication, just to ensure that you minimize the possibility of friction. Maybe what you could also explore is to spend a bit more time with foreplay to ensure that you have relaxed enough and opened enough.

A website that could be helpful is You are welcome to phone the SASHA Helpline – 0860 100 262; and a facilitator will be able to assist you in finding a practitioner as close as possible to you.

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Our users say:
Posted by: Wonder | 2009/02/20

Hi Ben on top sa BOMME LE BONTATE ge ba dira ngwana at the back is 100% for her

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Posted by: Ben | 2009/02/20

Yes you on top. Is the best way.

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Posted by: oz | 2009/02/20

Make sure that you are very wet, and like XXX said you ride him so you can control the depth.

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Posted by: XXX | 2009/02/19

U ride him so you can control the depth etc.

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Posted by: Kel | 2009/02/19

you are ONE lucky lady!!!! Enjoy.......

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