Our expert says:
one option would be for the two of you to go shopping together - this could be enjoyable and a way of maintaining a strong relationship with each other.
Also, if you give her money for clothes you can see whether she has bought things, and even budget with her and if necessary ask to look at receipts.
If you are genuinely worried about drug use, rather than scared by stories of drug use you can carry out a drugs test, but I would not recommend this unless you have serious concerns or evidence of this as this could damage the relationship between you.
If you shop together you can give her choice, but also not worry where the money is going.
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