Our expert says:
You're describing your husband as a pathetically immature and selfish twit. When such boys "promise" to change, view it as a tactic, not a vow to rely on. He wont stop cheating, and expects you, as you have done so far, to sinply accept it, even though in this age of HIV, it actually threatens your life. You don't have a problem "in the trusting dept" --- you have a habitual cheat as your husband ; to trust him would be wildly abnormal, and to be suspicious is natural and sensible. How can you reasonably and beneficially "let go of the past" when his continuing behaviour makes that past erpetually a present ?
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