Our expert says:
I'm afraid I'm not available yesterday. However, lets see what we can do today. Neither of you is "the problem" but you seem to have different styles in esponding to and dealing with problems, which is where couples counselling together could be really useful.
Miscarriage can be deeply emotionally upsetting to both of you, and needs to be treated with respect. Faced with sorrow / crisis, we differ in how we usually try to deal with it. Some of us want to talk about it and verbally seek solutions, and its admirable that you want to help her and to find out what is troubling her and how you might help. But some of us respond diferently, and prefer NOT to talk about our feelings and what's bothering us.
A counsellor can both help the pair of you to face this current sadness, and to find the best ways in which you can help each other without becoming discouraged or discouraging
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