Posted by: Anon | 2008/10/31

Please help

When my husband and i first had sex, i thot his penis was the biggest i ever had. Now today, 12 yrs and one child(c-section) later i can barely feel him. My vagina is so huge and i regularly do the kegel execises but it does not seem to help.Sometimes i can' t even stop urinating when practising the kegels. Is there something wrong with me or did his penis get smaller.Please help as this is becoming very frustrating for both of us.

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What sounds to be quite significant in this equation is that you can't stop the flow of urine using Kegels - I'm wondering whether you have in fact found the correct muscles. Try the following website:
If you don't notice any difference, then perhaps you need to have this assessed if not only for sexual pleasure/sensation, but also to prevent urinary incontinence later in life... There are physiotherapists who specialise in this work, a colleague of mine in Cape Town ( does such work and may know of professionals in your area if not in Cape Town....

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