Our expert says:
This is so sad to read, especially as this problem could almost certainly be cleared up if you would see a good local psychologist for a full assessment and then therapy of the CBT form, which could free you to enjoy penetrative sex --- sounds like you may have seen the wrong sort of psychologist in the first place. Analysts one ought to flee from, but behaviourists usually work well. Check out on amazon.com ( and then seek the book through Kalahari or exclusivebooks, locally, for self-help books, which might help you to do some of the work yourself.
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