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Hi Eli, welcome to the forum and thanks for posting here. I apologise for my delayed response.
It sounds as if your partner is setting you up for emotional abuse. You say she's 'nice' because she buys you things and takes you out, and yet she's emotionally abusive to the point that you're considering leaving her.
It doesn't sound as though you'd benefit from couple counselling - rather see a counsellor yourself and try to work out why you're feeling so stuck in an abusive and dysfunctional relationship. Invest in yourself, not the relationship - which sounds fundamentally flawed.
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