Our expert says:
He sounds like an intrusive, selfish, immature, greedy, stalking, controlling, abusive creep. Why would someone with your intelligence and ability would ever want to remain with him ? But the new guy is marrried and has other committments. Yes, he treats you well, so far, and that may feel like a marvellous contrast to the previous creep, but he's still a chater who may well, in time, cheat on you, too. If his marriage is really in such a terrible state, then he should proceed to get divorced, and then call you again. At present, he is cheerfully enjoying both of you.
You seem to see these two bad choices as the only choices you have or ever will have, and surely that is not so ?
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