Our expert says:
If she is earning ( or at least receiving, whether or not she EARNS it ) R 30 k per month, and you do so much for her --- what on earth is she spending all of that on, if she can;t afford to pay for things like tax, maintaining the car, etc., each month ?
I hear you, that your concern isn't about food as such, but her failure to take any such opportunity to do some little thing for you, while cheerfully accepting all that you give her. The arrangement is obviously superb for her, but why do you feel you have to pay so much for a relationship that otherwise doesn't sound all that great ?
A "serious and committed relatonship" isn't about paying for things. It really sounds as though she is using you, without thinking of your needs at all. You deserve a lot better than that, and shouldn't have to buy friendship
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