Our expert says:
Hmm. Talking pillows would bother me, too. If you mean pillow-talk ( other than the Doris Day movie ) as chatting to your partner when you go to bed together, well, I suppose tastes differ. Many people, like him, would consider the bedroom for sleeping, and would be delighted to chat with you before going to bed ( do you sit quietly all evening, and only start chatting when you get to bed ? )
Now, when you mean simply saying something tender and pleasant after making love, rather than holding a detailed debate about the Greek Financial Crisis, then I'm with you - that's not too much to expect. But some people, maybe especially men, don't like to talk about emotional topics or when they feel emotional.
Will he at least listen if you murmer sweet things in his ears after sex ? Have you ( out of bed !) discussed this with him in a calm way ? Has he nothing to say but "a bed room is not a court room" ? Interesting choice of words, too - a Court Room suggests he feels accused of something and needing to defend himself, which is a worrying thought.
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