Our expert says:
Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
Hi JA and thanks for posting. Bottom guys respond in many ways - some are more vocal, some are less active.
What you describe is far less important than what's going on in his mind during sex, and if he's telling you he's having a good time leave it at that.
This is fairly common, unlike sex portrayed by the porn industry. Don't make an issue out of it, don't make him feel inhibited or anxious about it.
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