Our expert says:
Talk about it, and take your time. And keep trying, but gently, moving towards what you want by tiny, gradual steps, rather than expecting to take the plunge all at once. I confess I didn't know that tongue in mouth was the Conservative manner of kissing, but maybe I haven't kissed too many Conservatives.
Admirably you say you care about him enough to want to handle this with sensitivity and consideration. One method that can be very useful, is to praise him for all that he does right, to talk about how much you like it when he does x or y, and to ask if he'd try a little Z. And maybe also, explore more about what HE'd like, about how HE fels, which would also give you more to work on.
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