Posted by: Tallia2 | 2008/07/01

people dont talk to me

I've come to the conclusion that people who know me are not interested in me at all. I am unimportant. They dont bother speaking to me, not even a hello but they talk amongst themselves all the time. I can be on facebook all day long and not one of my friends/family will chat to me even though they can see i am online.

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As Micky says, if they really don't care about you, they're not friends at all. And I don't think accessing anyone on Facebook is any indication of actual friendship, either. Why not, with the help of a counsellor, if needs be, work on forming a small number of genuine friendships, perhaps also by getting involved in clubs, societies hobbies, charitable work --- things where you would be meeting like-minded people with similar interests.

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Posted by: Britty | 2008/07/01

You can't rely on friends listed on Facebook - my brother has 180 friends listed and I don't know who they are but his family and friends all know each other.

CS is so right in that rather find friends with people who hae like minded interests. Take care.

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Posted by: anon | 2008/07/01

U sound childish if u ask me....

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Posted by: micky | 2008/07/01

moet nie dat mense jou omkrap nie as jy wil kan jy my meer vertel van jou en jou e.mail add. gee dan kan ek so af en toe vir jou n boodskap stuur ek sal dit nie elke dag kan doen nie maar ek probeer om so eenmal n week vir al my vriende wat ek nie gereeld sien nie n boodskap te stuur

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Posted by: micky | 2008/07/01

dan kan jy hul nie vriende noem nie. het jy al probeer om inplaas van n gesprek te begin net n e.mail te stuur om te se hello ek dink aan jou of geniet jou dag jy kry dalk eendag n varassing en iemand stuur n boodskap na jou moenie te hart probeer nie

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