Our expert says:
11 years is a long time, and time enough to expect your partner to be as faithful as in a marriage. So he cheated on you and lied to you. Him not havin maried you isn't the faintest excuse for him having an affair.
Why not see a marriage counsellor together, as it sounds as though there's lots needing to be sorted out properly ?
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