Our expert says:
This sounds like a tragic story! Unfortunately her sexual desire is heavily influenced by her psychological frame of mind and if she has been badly hurt and struggles to trust youl then her desire is likely to be suppressed. Additionally,it is quite commen that women in long term relationships experience a dramatic reduction in spontaneous desire even when the relationship is good. This may be making matters worse.
She could experience an improvement in desire as she comes to trust you again, but this is not likley to be as it was in the beginning. Furthermore,she doesn't need desire in order to choose to be sexual, so if she trusts you enough to be sexual, there is a way around the lack of 'hunger' for sex.
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