Our expert says:
Why does this paranoia, as you call it, this suspiciousness, come every few weeks, rather than being constant ? Does it correlate in any way with your menstrual cycle ? Sounds like you may have some basic problems of low self-estem and low self-confidence, leading to your feeling somehow not good enough for him to want to stay interested in you. And your experiences of life in your family have clearly been discouraging, perhaps leading to your drawing unhelpful and over-generalized conclusions about how life works. Do see a good local shrink or mcounselor to work on your own issues, and consider, once that has helped you to boost your self-esteem, some joint counselling / marriage counselling, together, to further improve the relationship
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