Our expert says:
Sorry to hear of this --- sounds like sadly typical police negilgence. They're surely en titled to enter the home to seek him to servie the notice, and to go to his place of work ( does he work ? ). And a court, if given evidence that someone is evading service of such an order, is surely entitled to declare it served or otherwise enforece it rather than allowing ongoing evasion of a court order. And if he is aare of the content of the order, having read your copy, he may still be bound my its terms. And kicking your door down, and uttering threats, are criminal offenses anyway.
Do call POWA or some similar organization, too, for support and advise on better ways to handle the abuse.
It is NOT true that there is nothing let but to take your own life --- you have the misfortune to have a leech and abuser ---don't finish his work for him by becoming your own abuser ! And at any time, including 3am, surely, you can call Lifeline. Get legal advice through lifeline and POWA, as I'm sure he can be considered as having been served, and can then be arrested if still at your place or in contact with you. Keep safe, from him and from your own sicidal ideas, as once you can get through this, life can be so very much better than this.
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