Our expert says:
She does indeed sound like a selfish and neglectful parent ; maybe fearing her own age rather than celebrating it, and desperate to have some sort of fling while she can still get away with it.
It would be understandable if you chose to ignore her and limit your contacts with her. Why do you feel it is your futy or right to try to reform her ? Its enormously unlikely that you could succeed, anyway. If you feel unwilling to care for her kids while she is gallivanting around looking foolish, so be it. But why not simply lead your own life, and sadly leave her to mess up her own ?
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