Our expert says:
Sounds like he and she got into the habit of commiserating when any problem arose in their lives --- but surely she has now left the country and needs to move on and develop a life of her own rather than being so dependent on your husband. Maybe phone her back, don't hang up, don't get too angry, but just tell her that your marriag is fine now, but for her interference and that she much stop calling or contacting either of you. Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing that she is upsetting you.
And you could talk with uim about how the neighbour's interfering little daughter seems to know so much about him and you, and to ask him to make sure she doesnt get any gossip to make mischief with. Buss's suggestions makes a lot of sense, too.
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