Posted by: raingirl | 2008/12/02


Dear Doc, im a 40 year old female.i never had an orgasm through penetration.i can only orgasm through direct stimulation of the clitoris. Can you suggest something?

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Many women actually never have the pleasure of experiencing an orgasm. Furthermore, unlike a male's orgasm, a women's orgasm tends to come in more varieties, such as: clitoral, vaginal, anal and other types (breast stimulation).

Most importantly, we need to understand that we each have individual bodies, tastes, body sizes and hence even our own experiences and types of orgasm - each of which is just as valid as any other orgasm.

You may want to participate in Kegel exercises that work on the muscles in your genitals for stronger orgasms, More info regarding these exercises are available at

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Posted by: RP | 2008/12/03

What about trying both simultaneously? While penetrating have your partner stimulate your clit? May I ask, what kind of stimulation of clit gets you an orgasm?

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Posted by: raingirl | 2008/12/02

its not a case of importance,i would like to experience it,whats so wrong about that,nothing wrong with

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Posted by: just a thot | 2008/12/02

why do people think, climaxing without penetration is less important than penetrating... i personally think that is absurd.

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