Posted by: holdon | 2003/01/15


In the last couple of months i had sex with my girlfriend several times, and its was always very pleasurable and good for me, but the problem is that i cum very quickly and she is not enjoying it, we are trying hard to get it better but still not able to acheive it,
what could be the possible causes of that, Is there any medication available which can make me stay for longer so that i can give her the same which i get..
Please advice

Thanking you in anticipation.

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We have discussed Rapid ejaculation over and over again. Please look in the archive under the heading"premature ejaculation", or coming to soon. There is a video series called :Sex a Life Long Pleasure, available from JT Publications (011) 614 - 1911, video No 2 deals specifically with Premature ejaculation.

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Some doctors use anti-depressants for it's side effect (delayed ejaculation) e.g. Anafranil, Zoloft, but these are scheduled medication that needs a script from a medical practitioner

Some doctors prescribe injection therapy so that even if you still come too quickly your erection will last longer and you can continue penetration. All the above are medical interventions that has to be prescribed by a doctor.

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Posted by: DbnGuy | 2003/01/16

I don't believe that you should be taking an anti-depressant drug for other purposes other than what it is manufactured.
Suggestion: Let your partner give you a BJ or Handjob until you cum.
10 to 1 you are going lose your erection thereafter. During that period, it is your turn to "play" with her - just not until the point of no return unless she asks....well, maybe still don't let her cum then.
Give it 10 to 20 minutes then let her start palying with you again. You should get hard again and won't cum as quick 2nd time around.
Use it, don't use it.

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Posted by: Nizmo | 2003/01/16

Also woman like direct stimulation of the clit. Try going down there head first :oP (oral)

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Posted by: Toy-Boy | 2003/01/16

I've learned from this forum that "Anafranil" pills really work for your broblem. Taken 4-5 hrs before having sex. The one problem is that it's only available on prescription.

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Posted by: Grin | 2003/01/16

Hi Holdon.

maybe you could try making your forplay a bit longer or even alot longer ...... not all ladies take the same time to get warmed up....... thus it takes her longer to achieve orgasm. so extend your foreplay and see if that helps any.

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