Our expert says:
It seems that you and your girlfriend have enjoyed acting out on your fantasies without taking into account the consequences of this. Fantasies are sometimes best left in the mind. The bottom line is that you need to decide how you feel about her and if you really love her enough to marry her. It may not be fair for you to judge her based on something that you yourself has engaged in.Has your feelings changed only afer the swinging incidents? She has laid out her plans to you and you know what she wants out of this relationship. You owe it to her to express your feelings. Let her know that you are no longer comfortable sharing partners and that it cant happen again if your'l plan to get married. Ask her how your'ls swinging has affected her opinion of you. Solidify yourls relationship first before deciding to let other people in. Put it down to a mistake and see if your'l can move on from there. If not , than dont lead her on.
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