Our expert says:
Its his problem. If he is running into the same problems in successive relationships, its very obvious he needs to see a therapist to break this pattern and work through the issues - to just continue to avoid them and hide from them is maladaptive and unkind to his innocent partners.
From your description, I don't think he is actually blaming you as such, though not really takeng responsibility either. He is saying HE has problems in relationships that recur, and he isn't yet man enough to face them and solve them
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