Our expert says:
Isn't a significant part of your problems due to your choosing to get involved with married men ? ( or recently divorced or sepparated men, not truly free from their previous relationship ? )
And your story also illustrates why I generally advise against workplace affairs - you can get separated when neither of you want it, or pushed back together for work purposes when neither of you might want that, either.
Now you may need to keep any contacts between you strictly professional and work-oriented. Sounds like you have eventually chosen a more effective and wise way of dealing with this
The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition. You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical exmanication, diagnosis and formal
advice. Health24 and the expert accept no responsibility or liability for any damage or personal harm you may suffer resulting from making use of this content.