Posted by: Ovaries | 2010/08/30

One night stands

Hi there,

Why is it that you feel like a dog and used after a one night stand? and why do you promise yourself not to ever do it again, just to do it again after a couple of drinks?

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Dear Ovaries,

Firstly, not all persons who choose a sexual lifestyle that includes no strings attached sexual encounters feel the way you have described.

In my experience if this is the outcome of a one night stand, it is often when a person is acting on other emotional needs that are often unmet and repressed and act out by engaging in a sexual encounter, which also may be in conflict with their own personal values, that they end up feeling this way. The true underlying unmet emotions are still left unmet, since the sexual encounter cannot address it and then on top of that the person experiences guilt, shame and regret for acting in a way that conflicts with their personal beliefs. It is possible that the person gets caught up in a compulsive process, should they continue to neglect the true underlying issues, to act out sexually, feel bad, feel depressed and then feel a compulsion to act out again to try and feel better etc.

Alcohol also reduces inhibitions and it is easier to act out when our facilities are numbed or distorted.

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Our users say:
Posted by: KG | 2010/08/31

Ovaries, stop drinking, you will get AIDS if not infected already because you obviously dont use protection by the sound of it. STOP DRINKING!!

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Posted by: Vidic | 2010/08/31

I think like sex, and when you drunk you just become so horny that you dont care what happens right now. And then the next day when you sober you regret it.

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Posted by: Chris | 2010/08/31

Because you like sex and you are horny most of the time.....correct?

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