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Posted by: SR | 2008/01/29

Old Girlfriends - Lee

I'd re-name this topic "Hanger Onners"

The theory behind a hanger onner or old girlfriend as you can put it is twofold amongst others (1) Lack of respect for the sanctity of the relationship (2) Its easier to have an indiscretion with someone whom you were romantically linked with in the past than to go out there and break new ground

When you meet someone with whom you are going to have a long lasting relationship with (Marriage) its wise to shed ones hanger onners for various reasons (1) To give your relationship a chance to grow and develope and be free of distraction (2) To give the hanger onner a chance to get over you and lkiewise for you to get over the hanger onner if those little haunting thoughts still play themselves over (3) Out of pure love and respect for your partner

Sometimes 3rd party hanger onners will stick around and mess with your merchandise just for that real assured feeling that if they want to they could have your man and also that smug feeling that he is not being faithful to you .... laughing at you the fool. They dont want him because they know he is damaged goods, they do it for numerous reasons including their own personal revenge

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So what is needed for adequate relationship growth, is some accurate psychological pruning

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Posted by: A | 2008/01/30

Couldn't agree more!! Perfectly summed up ;)

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Posted by: Callie | 2008/01/29

My piont exactly why else. Thanks SR

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