Our expert says:
indeed - you have answered your own questions!
In a problem situation women want to discuss and talk about it till its resolved. Men on the other hand , prefer to withdraw into a quiet place where they can think it through and find a solution.
This bahviour is programmed in our genetic make up. I cant be changed. It can only be modified or attenuated. Therefore you need to have a calm discussion with your partner about these different coping strategies and agree on a compromise that will suit both of you most of the time.
Og - I almost forgot. This is not an event - its a process and will continue throughout your life - no matter who the partner is
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