Our expert says:
There are many reasons for such attractions, none of them good or deserving to be acted on. Office relationships, especially with a boss, ALWAYS turn out badly, and you have the opportunity here to hurt yourself, your husband and children, and his wife and kids, and to ruin your career. That's not excitement, that's disaster.
Is there room to change your work assignments or schedule to as to avoid spending any time alone with him ? Whenever you find yourself day-dreaming about him, give yourself a sharp slap on the wrist and switch thoughts to something else - like your actual work !
And, as Maria says, re-invest in enjoying your own marriage
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