Our expert says:
I suppose this is suspiciousness of cheating. Though it can also happen that some husbands actually have an interest in nwomen's clothing to wear themselvs. But he sounds immature and avoding taking responsibility for his own share of any problems within the relationship. As SR says, chaters often accuse their spouse of cheating, and like to make accusations to distract from whatever they may be doing wrong. If much of what you are spending is your own earnings, he can hardly expect you to accouint for it to him. Can you possibly persuade him to join you in marriage counselling ? It could be instructive to draw up a full budget, including all he earns and all you earn, and all that he spends as well as your spending, so he can see how much you contribute and perhaps how little he does. Don't be too eager to forgive him if it turns out that he is cheating again, but work with a counsellor to decide what is actually best for you.
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