Our expert says:
Well, if he came all the way from Bloem to Pretoria and you stood him up, its no wonder he was cross. Couldn't you have at least called him and let him know what was happening ? Circumstances may be unforeseen, but at least we can call and explain.
For him to be talking of marriage now, still not having met you, sounds like a bit too much too soon. You are wise to notice the difference between all his talk abou sex, and his silence about love. To agree to meet with him might or might not be a good idea, but don't feel you in any way need to give him the sex he seems so eager for.
Sandra's idea of meeting at your home village is a good one, if practical - dont either of you ever travel home to go there ? She's right, too, about the need to talk about all sorts of things, and stop the sex-talk, as you need to ind out whether he wants or is even interested in anything else. And yes, meet in a public place like a coffee shop, and dotn't have him at your own home until you know him a whole lot better and know whether you would in any way benefit from getting to know him better
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