Our expert says:
Have you become less loving ? OR has he become less loveable ? Are you talking about a loss of libido on your side, in general or specifically with regard to him ? But you say he treated you badly over the years, apparently especiall with regard o sex, so a loss of pleasure in the prospect of sex with him is hardly surprising.
Now, he can't pretend he has no idea how he got HIV ( unless he was promiscuous with so many people he can't guess which one gave it to him ). And if he became HIV positive, it's understandable you would have concerns about not wanting the virus yourself.
Yet you say you are currently seeing a counsellor, so surely that counsellor ought to be able to help you to communicate better about this or anything else. You really need to discuss these issues with your counsellor, and if he'she is really unable to help, then find a better counsellor.
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