Our expert says:
its hard to say, from the details provided. Maybe this is how his family typically behaves, even with the others in the wider family. Or is this very sp[ecifically how they react to you, and quite unlike how they react to others ?
Is this how your husband has always felt, when with his family, or is it something new ?
Seriouly, discuss this betwen you, so you share an understanding and share your aims ; and then try to discuss it with his parents, not as accusations, but as descriptions - explaining that some aspects of how things go when you visit them are puzling to you, and make you feel much less welcome and less wanted than the other son and daughter-in-law, and you'd like to understand this better
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