Our expert says:
Well, you "click" with some people, and with others you don't. But you're not needing to go out clubbing together or share a weekend retreat --- yopu only need to work together, and it shouldn't be too hard to keep the relationship polite and effective within the work setting. From what you say, your comments about him were hurtful --- and you apologised, sensibly. Let him sulk a little if he wants to. Give it a bit more time for the dust to settle and for his ruffled feathers to unruffle.
I agree with maria that an apology in person would be far more effective than one by SMS, which should NEVWER EVWER be used for emotionally significant messages and situations. And the coffee might be a good idea, too
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