Our expert says:
You and your boyfriend have already taken the first important steps. You both have begun a dialogue, to communicate about the issue. You and your partner need to communicate further. He needs to share what about the sounds, or which particular sounds he finds distracting and why he thinks it does and you need to be willing to hear him and not take it personally or see it as a criticism or judgement of you. You also need to further communicate to him how you spontaneously need to give verbal/sound expression to your experience of pleasure and that it actually is a compliment to him, in that he is giving much pleasure. The dialogue will help promote shared understanding and the you both could find a middle ground that works for you both.
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