Our expert says:
At one level the answer is extremely clear. If you don't fel ready to have a baby yet ( and you're probably right ) then the two of you aren't ready. You call him your partner, which seems to mean that he has not taken steps to make a long-term committment to you in any way he can't easily wriggle out of ; and one wonders why he is suddenly so keen for you to have a child by him, irrespective of respect for your wishes. Is he trying to prove his manhood, or something similar, perhaps to someone else ? if this guy so hates condoms, dies he plan that you should emain permanently pregnant for the duration of the relationship ? And why should he object to you taking the pill ? I'd be inclined to leave him there in the tent, alone, and wait until you find a partner with more respect for your felings, and for the well-being of a baby.
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