Our expert says:
Do you have a baby /children? Lot of stress? Physically healthy? Is the relationship stable /happy? If you threaten her that she 'plays with fire', I must assume that she must tow the line the way you wish her to. Not always the best way for a struggling sexual relationship. When was the last time that you took her out for an evening? Flirt with her? When was the last time that the two of you just relaxed together and chat and enjoy each other's company? We are sometimes so busy surviving this world and its demands, that we forget to build a relationship and then we are surprise if the sexual thing also fall by the wayside. In stead of threatening her, try and understand what is the problem. If you do not succeed, consult your doctor or phone the SASHA helpline (0860 100 262) for a referral list for practitioners in your area. Deidre - SAHA
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