Our expert says:
It took him SIX years to discover he "can't" live with you ? Is that believable ? A guy whose main aim in life is fun, is no fit mate for anyone ; maybe once he grows up, but its hard to guess how long that might take.
Why did you patiently wait with him for so long, assuming he would eventually grow up and choose to be with you permanently rather than just while it suited him ?
And what happened to his wife and child ?
See a counsellor, and revise your decision to "love and adore" someone who is definitely not loving or loveable, nor worthy of adoration.
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