Our expert says:
A valuably thoughtful set of comments, and it would have been interesting to hear Nkalakatha's comments after reading these thoughtfully. Nkalakatha, we have heard quite a bit about what you don't want, but it's not at all clear what you DO want, other than to complain, and to push us to make decisions that have to be your own, and presumably then to blame us of whatever decision you make doesn;t work out well for you. See a local counsellor and find the right solutions for you.
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