Posted by: som1 | 2008/07/26

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lyk i just broke up (7mths) &  it wos just then dat i was ready to hav sex. i broke up with him bcus he really diddnt give me the attention i need. but the thing is that i want 2 have sex with him cus we both understand each oda &  i stll care alot 4 him but i dnt knw wot 2 do. is sleeping with your ex wrong?????

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You perhaps need to give more thought to why you want to continue a sexual relationship with someone you are no longer in a full relationship with? Its not necessarily wrong, but you have to ask yourself whether it is going to help you move on and develop a new relationship.

Remember something really important - you cannot make the rest of a relationship work by having sex with someone - those other aspects need to be worked on in their own right.

Think about hw its going to make you feel emotionally overall.

The legal age for sex in RSA is 16 years.

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Posted by: SPARKLE C | 2008/07/28

From EXPERIENCE girl i can tell you that please dont fall into submission.Dont need to scare you but take into consideration the disadvantages that you are bound to face.Just to remind you that most of them are irrevesible and obliterate you from enjoying the fact of being a youth.If you comfortable and secure about this then suit yourself but there is far more to life than sex.Hope you aint making a wrong turn.SHOULD YOU WISH TO CHAT ABOUT THIS OFF LINE DO NOT THINK TWICE ABOUT DOING SO.MY E MAIL ADDRESS IS ENLISTED ABOVE.HOLLA............

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Posted by: findsome1special | 2008/07/28

sleeping with anyone out of marriage is wrong. Wait till you have found that some1 special. If you cant wait till marriage (like I did) make sure its with some1 you really love. We have been together for 5 years and now are getting married.

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