Our expert says:
I would suggest that you first introduce the subject of adding even more fun and excitement your sexual relationship indicating how important it is to you that both of you continue to enjoy this part of your relationship and that it is important to you that she has fun and much pleasure when you are sexual.
In the discussion explore her ideas of ways that she would consider that could add more fun and pleasure. If she does not introduce the addition of toys, you could add the idea and sound her out about how she feels about it and add how you would feel about it too. Your need for added fun and excitement is equally important to hers too.
You would then get a sense of how she feels, she will have had the opportunity to hear you out. There-after you could introduce the toy as a "present" based on your discussion.
As for the blindfolds I am not aware of who stock them. You could do a google search.
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