Our expert says:
I wouldn't want him back. A guy who is foolish enough to get himself involved in drug problems, and doesn't get himself into a proper, comprehensive and lasting drug rehab amd treatment program, and who is immature enough to want to blame you, without taking responsibility for his own lousy decisions and their consequences, is BAD NEWS and likely to be a bad relationship partner. it souns like he's similarly been making stupid arguments to avoid counselling. This sounds like someone deeply in love with his drugs, and not with you. People like that have a relationship with their drugs, not with other people.
See a counsellor for yourself, to be able to get on with the rest of your life, and leave this loser to sort out things for himself.
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