Our expert says:
It sounds like you need to help him to understand that your needs are different to his, and that would really turn you on is if he did ... (whatever you want him to be doing). Try to give him some gentle guidance during a sexual experience, perhaps play with him a little by teasing him with sensual pleasure before relieving his frustration then ask him to do the same. Depending on how you feel about soft porn, perhaps you could check out for yourself some romantic porn that demonstrates this, then watch with him and ask him to do the same?
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